Dear little friend
I hope you are great and having a fabulous time. I’m writing to you about ways of making friends. You were always a lonely child at home and school never gotten exposed to people around you.” Remember that day when my friends from school came to visit and then mom said I had a headache even though I avoided them.” You were shy, anti-social and scared to talk to people. Self confidence was never one of your strongest points and you were a quiet person but you were good in terms school work. You were a top student in the class but not at making friends.

Its not that you are not a beautiful person but what lacked was confidence and trusting yourself. That made thing difficult for you and what was worse was not having a relationship with your mother. She was supposed to be the first person that was your friend. You were afraid to approach her and she was also very strict so you could not talk to her about anything. Mothers really do help a lot, they know you better than anyone they can tell when you are troubled by something and when you need money. Having a relationship with your mother is a good foundation it means that you won’t have trouble making friends.

Friends are very important to someone’s life they are always there for you whether you don’t want them to be there. What I want to tell you is that you can make friends there is no need to be scared of people. All you need to do is just is start by smiling and then you talk to the person, and you develop a friendship. A smile says a lot to someone like a smile can tell that you are a kind, loving, amicable and beautiful person.

First you must love, respect and appreciate yourself before people love, respect and appreciate you.

Your loving friend
Babalwa